The rockstar girlfriend style is marked by attitude, irreverence and sensuality. It can be a great option for those who want to express themselves through fashion and appearance. But don't worry, you don't have to be a rockstar's girlfriend to have this lifestyle.
The aesthetic is a mix of glamour and rock 'n' roll attitude, a combination that has caught the attention of women who want to convey a strong and confident image.
In this article, we'll help you incorporate the trend, giving you tips on clothes, accessories, make-up and behavior, since this aesthetic is shaped by a lifestyle.
How it came about
The rockstar girlfriend aesthetic is inspired by the style of rock musicians' girlfriends in the 70s and 80s. These women dressed in pieces that showed rebellion, such as leather, ripped jeans, boots and studs.
Make-up also followed this style, with striking eyes and dark lips. In the 1990s, the aesthetic took on a new interpretation with the popularization of grunge, which brought a more stripped-down look, with baggy, worn-out clothes, boots and rock band T-shirts.
Since the 2000s, the style has adapted to fashion trends and today you can find pieces that mix rock style with more sophisticated elements.
How to dress
To have a rockstar girlfriend style, you need key pieces in your closet. The ideal is to mix glamorous pieces with heavier touches. See below for examples of clothes that can represent this aesthetic well.
Leather jackets: A black leather jacket is an indispensable item in a rockstar girlfriend's closet. It's versatile and can be worn for a casual look with jeans or for a more sophisticated look with a dress.
NOTE: You'll almost always see me wearing a leather jacket. I really love it!
T-shirts with band prints: are a classic rockstar girlfriend style. They add a casual touch and are perfect for a more relaxed, casual look.
Leather pants: Leather pants can be a stylish alternative to traditional jeans. Opt for slim-fit models that flatter your figure.
Leather boots: are a fundamental item for the rockstar girlfriend style. They add a touch of personality and can be worn with a variety of outfits.
Destroyed jeans: Another key piece of rock style, destroyed jeans are ideal for those who want to bring a bit of rebellion to their look. Choose a pair of jeans with strategic rips and match them with a t-shirt or looser blouse.
Black dress: this is a classic in a woman's closet and can also be used to create a Rockstar Girlfriend look. Choose a more fitted model with leather details, lace or studs for a more daring touch.
Plaid shirt: the plaid shirt is a piece that harks back to the grunge style of the 90s and can be used to create a more casual look. Choose a shirt in a lighter fabric and combine it with a basic t-shirt underneath or a more daring top.
Boots: a good pair of boots can be worn both to give a heavier touch to dresses and skirts and to complement a more basic look with jeans and a t-shirt.
NOTE: again, you'll almost always see me wearing boots. I love them! I think it's very sexy, daring and comfortable to wear to my fiancé's concerts.
Other characteristics of the style are:
- Shiny and metallic pieces
- Silk/satin fabrics
- Fringed pieces
- A touch of boho chic, reminiscent of hippie style
- Jaguar print
- Plumes
- Lace or printed kimonos (very Woodstock)
- Fur coats
- Income
- Transparencies
- Pleated skirts
- Baguette bags
- Metallic eyeshadows
- All star or Vans
- Platform jumps
- Long dresses or sleep dresses
Accessories of a Rockstar Girlfriend
As well as clothes, accessories are also important to complete the look. Some options include:
- Metal accessories: Metal chains, bracelets and earrings are perfect for adding a touch of rebellion to your look.
- Fishnet stockings: for a more daring look, fishnet stockings can be worn with shorts or skirts, or with ripped pants.
- Dark sunglasses: are a key item for the rockstar girlfriend look. Opt for models with black or brown frames and dark lenses.
- Leather bags: is an indispensable accessory for style. Choose a model with an elegant design that can be worn for both casual and formal occasions.
- Scarves: can be worn as a hair accessory, tied around the neck or as a way of adding a touch of color to the look.
- Chockers: of all kinds, give a sexier look to the outfit. Try the classic black chocker, lace or even rhinestones for a more glamorous touch.
Make-up
Make-up is an important part of the rockstar girlfriend style. For a rocker look, use eyeliner to create a dramatic cat eye, and add a little black eyeshadow to intensify the look.
But you don't always have to keep the dark look. This trend takes its cue from 70s rock, which was more colorful and had a lot of hippie influence. It's also inspired by glam rock. So, if you prefer, go for colored eyeshadows and glitter, which go very well together!
Red or dark lipsticks are also great options for highlighting the lips and completing the look. One tip is to add gloss over the red lipstick to create a varnish effect. I particularly love cherry lips!
Photos
Rockstar Girlfriend photos are usually taken in a concert, dressing room, studio, pub or even on the street. The poses are usually very spontaneous, showing attitude and fun, or more rebellious acts, like a drink in one hand and a cigarette in another.
If you're the type who thinks it's absurd to go near a cigarette, aesthetics is definitely not for you. Not because they are smokers, but because they simply don't care, and live in environments with smoke without any problems. They are free-spirited people and don't tend to be prejudiced in any way.
It's also common for them to take photos with their boyfriend's musical instruments, or of themselves if they know how to play. The images are usually night shots, with lights and flashes, in high contrast.
Attitude
Attitude is a crucial part of embodying the rockstar girlfriend style. To have this attitude, you need to be confident and authentic. Being yourself is a fundamental part of this lifestyle.
To look like a rockstar, hold your head high, keep your shoulders back and walk with confidence. Be authentic, don't be afraid to express your opinion to the world and, most importantly, have fun!
See our article on how to be self-confident.
Music
Finally, music is another fundamental part of the style. Listen to CLASSIC rock bands such as Led Zeppelin, Deep Purple, Guns N' Roses, The Rolling Stones and Black Sabbath for inspiration and to better understand the essence of this trend.
You can also choose to listen to other rock genres, such as progressive, grunge, punk, metal or even emo! Who here has ever been emo? I must admit I have been, haha.
However, the essence of this trend is more inspired by the style of the 70s groupies, which is what makes it different from the styles mentioned above. In classic rock, clothes had a hippie influence and incorporated prints, colors, glitter, bangs and kimonos, elements that don't exist in emo or goth styles, for example.
In short, music is a way of expressing yourself and showing your personality through your taste in music. If this style of music isn't for you, perhaps it's not your aesthetic. But there's nothing to stop you adding elements of it to your look.
Current celebrities who adopt the aesthetic
Embed from Getty ImagesMegan Fox: the actress represents a more sensual and feminine version of the style, with a "femme fatale" touch, and quite daring! Some would say too much. She has been criticized for her revealing clothes and controversial behavior in her relationship with her "rockstar" Machine Gun Kelly (who is actually a rapper). The diva has been living a true rockstar girlfriend lifestyle.
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Kourtney Kardashian: we even have one of the Kardashians with the style! The diva tends to wear a lot of leather, band t-shirts, boots, jackets and a lot of black in her outfits. Her look is sensual and daring (a little less so than her friend Megan Fox, lol), but she also loves loose, stripped-back pieces. The model adopted the more intense style after starting her relationship with musician Travis Barker, whom she married in 2022.
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Taylor Momsen: the actress and singer is known for her rock 'n' roll style, with leather pieces, studs and lots of black. She often wears short outfits, heavy boots, lace and leather jackets. She's the 2000s rock style of the trend.
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Kristen Stewart: despite being the face of Chanel, the actress is a fan of a more androgynous look, with oversized, masculine-inspired pieces. She often wears ripped pants, baggy T-shirts and high-top sneakers, combined with leather jackets and hats, for a more grunge aesthetic.
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Gwen Stefani: she is an icon of rockstar girlfriend style, with her mix of feminine and masculine pieces. She often wears leather skirts, heavy boots, military jackets and printed T-shirts. Her version of the aesthetic is reminiscent of Glam Rock.
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Avril Lavigne: the Canadian is known for her punk rock style, with ripped clothes and black and red pieces. She often wears leather jackets, band T-shirts and high-top sneakers. Again, she's more representative of 2000s rock.
The real Rockstar Girlfriends
The rockstar girlfriend aesthetic is certainly influenced by women who have been part of the rock universe and have become style icons. Here are some examples of the famous muses who created the trend:
Anita Pallenberg: model and actress, she was the girlfriend of Brian Jones, founder of the Rolling Stones, and later of guitarist Keith Richards. Her style was marked by leather garments, sunglasses and long, shaggy hair.
Pattie Boyd: model and photographer, she was married to Beatles guitarist George Harrison and later to Eric Clapton, guitarist of the group Derek and the Dominos. She is known for her hippie-chic style, with long dresses, fringe boots and bohemian accessories.
Marianne Faithfull: singer, songwriter and actress, she was the girlfriend of Rolling Stones leader Mick Jagger. Her androgynous appearance and short hair were a major influence on 60s fashion, as was her rock'n'roll style.
Drink Buell: model and singer (but also known for being one of the most famous groupies), she was the girlfriend of several musicians, including Todd Rundgren and Aerosmith's Steven Tyler. Her style was a mix of punk and glam, with bold make-up, platform boots and leather jackets.
Kate Hudson: actress and businesswoman, is the daughter of legendary rock star Kurt Cobain. Her style is a mix of boho-chic and rock'n'roll, with pieces such as leather boots, biker jackets and floral dresses.
The style controversy
The rockstar girlfriend aesthetic, despite having made a strong comeback on TikTok and Pinterest, is often contested by some people. One of the main criticisms is that this style reinforces an image of women dependent on their rockstar partners and a culture of excess and drugs. However, there is another perspective on this style, which can be seen as an expression of freedom, self-confidence and attitude.
The rockstar girlfriend style can be interpreted as a movement that draws inspiration from the women who lived in the world of rock and roll in the 70s and 80s, such as those mentioned above. These women were known for their beauty, but also for their strong and independent personalities. The rockstar girlfriend style can be a way of paying homage to these women and their contributions to rock culture.
In addition, the rockstar girlfriend aesthetic can be seen as a form of female empowerment, as it is a style that promotes self-expression and individuality. It is possible to follow this aesthetic without having a partner in the music industry, or without adopting behaviors that are harmful to health.
The controversy surrounding the style can therefore be seen as a question of perspective. It's possible to challenge this aesthetic from a critical view of rock and roll culture and its excesses, but it's also possible to see it as a way of paying homage to the women who have been important in this history, and as an expression of freedom and female empowerment (and a lot of style!).
I take the view that it's a WONDERFUL aesthetic.
About my experience with this aesthetic
Although my fiancé isn't famous, I consider myself a true GF Rockstar, as I live this lifestyle. He plays guitar in two classic rock bands, and almost every weekend I accompany him to rehearsals and gigs, enjoying this wonderful world of good music and bohemian life.
IMPORTANT: I experience this universe in the best possible way, in a responsible and healthy way! We don't need to use drugs or adopt irresponsible or illegal behavior to have this lifestyle.
My favorite bands are classic rock bands like Deep Purple, Black Sabbath, Credence, the Beatles, Led Zeppelin and the like. Contrary to what many people think, rock doesn't have to be heavy and noisy!
When it comes to looks, I tend to opt for the more classic, feminine and sensual side of style. I'm passionate about tight dresses, lace, miniskirts, leather and varnish pieces, red lipstick (no wonder the name of the site is Cherry Lips!), and I don't leave the house without kitten eyeliner, ankle boots and a leather jacket.
I always opt for tighter clothes that flatter my figure, but in a balanced way. I also love high heels, but it's very uncomfortable to wear them for two-hour shows (let's just say I've tried, lol).
In short, the rockstar girlfriend style is a unique combination of femininity, attitude, fun and rock'n'roll. It represents a powerful, sensual, daring woman who tends to shine wherever she goes.
The muse of this lifestyle differs from other alternative styles because she mixes glamour, colors and boho elements, while maintaining the darker, heavier essence of rock. She dresses like a true diva.
To incorporate this style into your closet and behavior, it's important to invest in key pieces, stylish accessories, dramatic make-up and, above all, have a confident and authentic attitude.
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